You can support people but you can't live for people.
This lesson has taken me a lot longer to learn than most.
I love to inspire so it's natural that I want to put my heart and soul into everything, everyone. But you just can't. People aren't bad. They just are not wired to do the same.. and then you are their girl with the golden hair.
People take. And they take. Because that is life. But pretty soon, the girl is left with nothing. and they wonder why so soon after, they too, feel so empty. It's not a coincidence.
People latch onto strenth. People latch on to money. People latch on to hope because so many people are looking for someone to 'save' them.
The girl with the golden hair.
Every man I have ever dated has tried to return to me at some point (even the married ones), every friend who has ever hurt me, every burnt bridge. Because when you are genuinely love and supported- given heart and soul, when it's so uncommon to recieve it, you soon realize life without the golden hair is not enough.
This is my battle. I want to stay open and always give my heart and soul (good and bad), because it's how I'm wired. But I know deep down inside you just can't live for people, they aren't wired that way.
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